Orgasmic Dysfunction in Women

Symptoms, Doctors, Treatments, Advances & More

Orgasmic dysfunction is when a woman either cannot reach orgasm or has trouble reaching orgasm when she is sexually excited.

When sex is not enjoyable, it can become a chore instead of a satisfying, intimate experience for both partners. Sexual desire may decline, and sex may occur less often. This can create resentment and conflict in the relationship.

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About 10% to 15% of women have never had an orgasm. Surveys suggest that up to one half of women are not satisfied with how often they reach orgasm.

The sexual response involves the mind and body working together in a complex way. Both need to function well for an orgasm to happen.

Many factors can lead to problems reaching orgasm. They include:

• A history of sexual abuse or rape
• Boredom in sexual activity or a relationship
• Fatigue, stress or depression
• Lack of knowledge about sexual function
• Negative feelings about sex (often learned in childhood or teen years)
• Shyness or embarrassment about asking for the type of touching that works best for you
• Partner issues

Health problems that can cause problems reaching orgasm include:

• Certain medicines that are prescribed. The most common medicines used to treat depression (SSRIs or selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors) may cause this problem. These include fluoxetine, paroxetine (Paxil), and sertraline (Zoloft) and others.
• Hormonal disorders or changes, such as menopause.
• Chronic illnesses that affect health and sexual interest.
• Chronic pelvic pain, such as from endometriosis.
• Damage to the nerves that supply the pelvis due to conditions such as multiple sclerosis, diabetic nerve damage, and spinal cord injury.
• Spasm of the muscles surrounding the vagina that occurs against your will (vaginismus).
• Vaginal dryness.

The symptoms of orgasmic dysfunction include:

• Being unable to reach orgasm
• Taking longer than you want to reach orgasm
• Having only unsatisfying orgasms

Important goals when treating problems with orgasms are:

• A healthy attitude toward sex, and education about sexual stimulation and response
• Learning to clearly communicate sexual needs and desires, verbally or non-verbally

How to make sex better:

• Get plenty of rest and eat well. Limit alcohol, drugs, and smoking. Feel your best. This helps with feeling better about sex.
• Do Kegel exercises. Tighten and relax the pelvic muscles.
• Focus on other sexual activities, not just intercourse.
• Use birth control that works for both you and your partner. Discuss this ahead of time so you aren't worried about an unwanted pregnancy.
• If other sexual problems, such as lack of interest and pain during intercourse, are happening at the same time, these need to be addressed as part of the treatment plan.

Discuss the following with your provider:

• Medical problems, such as diabetes or multiple sclerosis
• New medicines
• Menopausal symptoms
• Symptoms of anxiety and depression

The role of taking female hormone supplements in treating orgasmic dysfunction is unproven and the long-term risks remain unclear.

Treatment can involve education and learning to reach orgasm by focusing on pleasurable stimulation and directed masturbation.

• Most women require clitoral stimulation to reach an orgasm. Including clitoral stimulation in sexual activity may be all that is necessary.
• If this does not solve the problem, then teaching the woman to masturbate may help her understand what she needs to become sexually excited.
• Use of a mechanical device, such as a vibrator, may be helpful to achieve orgasm with masturbation.

Treatment may include sexual counseling that includes a series of couples' exercises to:

• Learn and practice communication
• Learn more effective stimulation and playfulness

Women do better when treatment involves learning sexual techniques or a method called desensitization. This treatment works to gradually decrease the response that causes lack of orgasms. Desensitization is helpful for women with significant sexual anxiety.

Published Date: May 29, 2026
Published By: LaQuita Martinez, MD, Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology, Emory Johns Creek Hospital, Alpharetta, GA. Also reviewed by David C. Dugdale, MD, Medical Director, Brenda Conaway, Editorial Director, and the A.D.A.M. Editorial team.

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